We tried so hard to make things better for our kids that we made them worse. For my grandchildren, I'd know better.
I d really like for them to know about hand-me-down clothes and home-made ice cream and leftover meatloaf. I really would.
My cherished grandson, I hope you learn humility by surviving failure and that you learn to be honest even when no one is looking.
I hope you learn to make your bed and mow the lawn and wash the car-and I hope nobody gives you a brand-new car when you are sixteen.
It will be good if at least one time you can see a baby calf born, and you have a good friend to be with you if you ever have to put your old dog to sleep.
I hope you get a black eye fighting for something you believe in.
I hope you have to share a bedroom with your younger brother. And it is all right to draw a line down the middle of the room, but when he wants to crawl under the covers with you because he s scared, I hope you ll let him.
And when you want to see a Disney movie and your kid brother wants to tag along, I hope you take him.
I hope you have to walk uphill with your friends and that you live in a town where you can do it safely.
If you want a slingshot, I hope your father teaches you how to make one instead of buying one. I hope you learn to dig in the dirt and read books, and when you learn to use computers, you also learn how to add and subtract in your head.
I hope you get razzed by friends when you have your first crush on a girl, and that when you talk back to your mother you learn what Ivory soap tastes like.
May you skin your knee climbing a mountain, burn your hand on the stove and stick your tongue on a frozen flagpole.
I hope you get sick when someone blows smoke in your face. I don t care if you try beer once, but I hope you won t like it. And if a friend offers you a joint or any drugs, I hope you are smart enough to realize that person is not your friend.
I sure hope you make time to sit on a porch with your grandpa or go fishing with your uncle.
I hope your mother punishes you when you throw a baseball through a neighbor s window, and that she hugs you and kisses you when you give her a plaster of pared mold of your hand.
These things I wish for you-tough times and disappointment, hard work and happiness.
我們竭盡全力想讓我們的兒女們過(guò)得更好,而結(jié)果卻是適得其反。對(duì)我的孫輩們,我就明智得多了。
我真的希望他們能夠了解什么是兄長(zhǎng)傳下來(lái)的舊衣服,家制的冰淇淋,以及吃剩的肉糕。我真的希望。
我的寶貝孫子,我希望你在經(jīng)受失敗的考驗(yàn)之后能學(xué)會(huì)謙卑,也希望你能學(xué)會(huì)誠(chéng)實(shí),即使在沒(méi)有人注視你的時(shí)候。
我希望你能學(xué)會(huì)自己疊被子,自己刈草坪,自己洗車(chē)--我還希望在你滿(mǎn)十六歲時(shí)沒(méi)有人送給你一輛嶄新的轎車(chē)。
假如你至少有一次機(jī)會(huì)看見(jiàn)小牛犢出生,假如你不得不為你的老狗送終,那時(shí)有一位好朋友在場(chǎng)為你作伴--那樣該有多好!
我希望你能為自己的所信仰與人斗得眼青臉腫。
我希望你能和你弟弟共一間臥室--即使你在臥室中間劃一條分界線也沒(méi)關(guān)系?墒,當(dāng)?shù)艿芤驗(yàn)楹ε露肋M(jìn)你的被窩時(shí),我希望你會(huì)接納他。
當(dāng)你要出去看迪斯尼電影,你的小弟弟想做你的小尾巴時(shí),我希望你能帶上他。
我希望你能和朋友們一起爬山,而在你所生活的城市里做這項(xiàng)運(yùn)動(dòng)不會(huì)有什么危險(xiǎn)。
如果你想要一把彈弓,我希望你父親能教你怎樣自己做一把,而不是為你買(mǎi)一把現(xiàn)成的。我還希望你能學(xué)會(huì)挖泥巴和讀書(shū);而當(dāng)你學(xué)會(huì)使用電腦時(shí),你也應(yīng)該學(xué)會(huì)加減法的心算。
當(dāng)你第一次戀上一個(gè)女孩時(shí),我希望你會(huì)受到朋友們的嘲弄;而當(dāng)你跟你母親頂嘴時(shí),希望她叫你嘗一嘗象牙肥皂的滋味。
但愿你能在爬山時(shí)弄破膝蓋上的皮,或者在爐子上燒傷手,或者讓舌頭粘在結(jié)冰的旗桿上。
我希望吸煙者對(duì)著你的臉上噴吐煙霧時(shí),你會(huì)感到惡心。如果你嘗試喝一次啤酒,我不會(huì)在意;但是我希望你不會(huì)喜歡上它。如果有一位朋友請(qǐng)你吸一口含大麻的香煙,或者任何毒品,我希望你明智地意識(shí)到他不是你的朋友。
我當(dāng)然希望你能抽時(shí)間來(lái)陪你爺爺在門(mén)廊上坐一坐,或者陪你叔叔釣釣魚(yú)。
如果你把捧球扔進(jìn)了鄰居的窗戶(hù),我希望你母親懲罰你。如果你能剪掉指甲,用石膏做一只自己的手的模型送給你媽?zhuān)蚁M龝?huì)給你擁抱和親吻。
我希望你能經(jīng)歷:艱難的歲月,挫折和失望;希望你努力工作,幸?鞓(lè)。